Dear mothers of young children (0-23yrs),
Please take notice, this non-mother is not impressed with your so called super-hero tricks or your super rude attitudes! I say this not because I don’t like you or your children, but because I am over letting you be entitled to everything in this world on YOUR time. I have a couple of examples of your rude behavior, maybe you haven’t noticed what you are doing and maybe no one has called you out on it.
►If you are a mother in line at the gas station behind me (cause I got to the pump first), don’t yell at me and complain about how you need to get thru the line before me because you have kids to get home to. Your kids are not the ace card or the card that gets you to pass go and collect the next spot in line for free.
►If I am seated at a restaurant eating with a friend, DO NOT ask me to move tables in the middle of my meal so that you and your snotty kids can have more room. I got there first, I took the table that I wanted and I had my food served to me. Would you and your snotty kids move if I asked you to? Don’t lie the answer is no!
►Do not bitch and whine that you deserve time off or a raise because you are a mom. You get time off because your employer is kind enough to give you time off, this isn’t a government job and the government hasn’t ordered the employer to GIVE you days. Also, if your job performance deserving of a raise, you may get one, again the employer DOESN’T have to give you one, this is out of the kindness of their heart/pocketbook. But don’t rationalize that you are a mother on a tight income and you deserve a raise on this merit.
►Also, don’t expect to turn your vacation request in late and after everyone else in the office and expect to get all the days you want. First come first serve. There are others of us that can plan ahead and put things on the calendar. Just because your kids are out of school and YOU want to go on vacation, doesn’t mean that my request is less important than yours. Get it together, organize and put your request in early!
►If you and your kids are in a public place and your child (no matter the age) decides to throw a temper tantrum, correct them don’t ignore them. If the correction doesn’t work, take away from others in public. I didn’t give birth to your child, I know how to say “no” and I shouldn’t have to listen to your spoiled child. Grow a back bone, be the adult and take control of the situation. This is doubly true for your child throwing a fit in a restaurant, bring a toy for them to play with or ask for crackers to keep the kid quiet while you dine.
Sincerely,
Other Women of the World
Other Women of the World


